Lowering their own value - So many girls today have very little self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-worth. They don't like themselves and they certainly don't love themselves. Since they have no self-esteem, they are so desperate for a guy's attention that they will do anything, including lowering their own value. So instead of getting treated like the princess that they are, they get treated like garbage, and get used and abused by guy after guy. If you want people to treat you like you're worth something, you have to start believing it first. You dress skanky, and then wonder why guys treat you like you're not worth anything. If you want to be treated like a princess, dress, talk, and act like it, and I guarantee you that you will.
Being a man hater - Let me tell you something. I'm not your ex-boyfriend. I did not cheat on you, I did not abuse you or treat you like crap. I'm sorry that a guy or some guys treated you like garbage. But if you think by you treating every other guy you meet like they were the ones that hurt you, it won't help. In fact, it will do the opposite. Why would a guy waste his time and effort on being nice to a bitter, man-hater? Why would a guy go out of his way for someone who doesn't appreciate it? The answer is, he won't.
Treating a nice guy as if he just wants something - Believe it or not, there are still nice guys in the world. You haven't ruined all of us. Some of us like to be nice, whether we are interested in you or not. So be grateful when guys are nice to you. Not every one of us that smiles and opens the door for you wants to get in your pants. Just because a guy thinks you're cute doesn't mean he wants to date, marry or sleep with you. Guys like doing things for pretty girls. And guess what, most of the time, we don't expect anything in return. So quit acting like every time a guy does something nice, he wants in your pants.
Feminism- I know I'm going to get a lot of heat for this, but oh well. We live in a society, where we think everyone should be equal. We live in an entitled society thinking no one should have more or be better than me. Can I tell you something? WE ARE NOT ALL EQUAL. Women will never be as physically strong as men. Deal with it. Men will never be as emotionally empathetic as women. Deal with it. Are their social injustices that need to be fixed? Sure, there will always be. But quit trying to think that women and men should be equal. Should men be allowed to punch women in the face? Should women be responsible for opening doors for men and asking them out? Of course not. As a woman there are many things you have that men will never have. Beautiful women have the easiest life out of anyone. In general, they get a lot more free stuff and breaks in life than anyone else. I've worked as a server for many years, and I was darn good. Yet day in and day out, my beautiful female counterparts almost always made a lot more in tips than I did. Why is that? Why is it that so few women actually have to buy drinks in a bar? It's because guys are more inclined to treat attractive girls in an unfair manner. It's just the way it works. Now what happens if you're an ugly girl? Well I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this, but you're going to have to work hard, just like every guy in the world has to. Should women fight so that wages in certain sectors aren't as different as guys? Absolutely! But stop thinking that men and women are equal, we aren't! Stop being so independent that you think you don't need a man to look out for you or be nice to you. Be thankful that men want to go out of their way to be nice, to give you things just because.
Guys have in us an instinctual desire to look after, to take care of, and to treat girls with respect. The problem is that as society changes, you're making it more and more difficult for us to do this. Guys are still humans, we still have flaws. And if you're going to let anyone, including guys, walk all over you and get away with it, guess what, they will! As humans, we will do whatever we can get away with. But if girls started standing up for themselves, stopped being desperate, and started acting like women of worth, I promise you, I guarantee you, that guys would start treating you different. They'd have to. Or else they'd be single, while the rest of the male population learned once again what chivalry was. The power is in your hands. Stop talking, dressing, and acting skanky. Talk and act like a woman that is worth more, and guys will start treating you like you're worth more.
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