There are a lof of misconceptions and false views that a surprisingly number of women hold. I am sure I will continually be adding to this list, but here are a few to start. I will also be adding separate articles going into each one of these misconceptions separately.
Having sex with a guy will make him you - FALSE! If a guy likes you, he likes you. You doing anything sexual with him will not make him like you. In fact, it can do the opposite. If a guy likes you, and you fool around with him too soon, he will lose respect for you. When a guy looks at you, he either sees you as good girlfriend material, or just good for a roll in the hay. And if you fool around with him, guess what category you put yourself in? Exactly, you become "hay" material.
You have to dress slutty to attract guys - FALSE! This is a view shared by young girls and older women alike. Many girls think they have to show cleavage and a lot of skin to get guys to notice them. This is false. If you want a guy to just see you as a pair of body parts, and not a real person, I suggest you dress skanky. But if you'd rather a guy see and like you for who you are, and not just a piece of meat, I suggest you not dress like you belong in a Vegas show.
If a guy doesn't approach you, he doesn't think you're attractive - FALSE! The majority of guys are afraid to approach women. This is a very sad fact for you, because you aren't getting approached by even a microscopic fraction of guys that find you attractive. Guys, like girls, are afraid of rejection. No guy wants to approach a girl, only to get rejected and humiliated. So instead, guys look from a distance without approaching. And I'm not talking like 50 percent of the male population. I'm talking closer to 99.99% (A very scientific number from years of research) of the male population. So if you think you're not attractive because you're not getting approached, you're not alone, because that's how most of the female population feels. But it's false. Guys are just a bunch of pansies. Me included :)
That pimple on your face makes you less attractive - FALSE! Can I ask you something? "WHAT PIMPLE?" Guys don't notice if you have a pimple or not. This is so funny to me because girls get a little pimple on their face, and it will literally ruin their day and change their plans. I've actually had a girl tell me she doesn't want to go to the movie theater, and sit in a dark room with me because she has a pimple. Seriously? I promise you that guys don't even see your pimple unless you point it out to us. So stop freaking out, stop worrying, and let it go. Everyone gets pimples. It doesn't change the way you look.
Chopping off your beautiful hair is a good idea - FALSE! If you have long beautiful and sexy hair, why in the world would you chop it all off and get rid of it? I think it's a easy answer, YOU DON'T! But there are a ton of women who do this. And I shake my head and tell them not to, that it will be a mistake, and they go through with it, and you know what happens? They regret it. I think that a lot of women get bored with their hair and want to do something different. I can understand this. But why not put some highlights in your hair, or do something that you can always undo. But I've never seen a girl with long beautiful hair go and chop it all off, and become more beautiful. But that's my opinion.
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