Sometimes I giggle at how silly and insecure girls can be. Girls seem to have this misconception that guys are like a Simon Cowell beauty judge. That we comb over your face and body and cringe at every little "fault" and "flaw" that you think have. Can I tell you something? A pink dot on your face doesn't make you ugly. Guess what, you're human. There are going to be days where you wake up and have a zit or pimple just like there will be days that guys will. Just because you wake up and have a pimple or zit on your cheek doesn't make you less attractive then the day before. If you have a pimple guess I can almost guarantee you that we honestly won't even notice it if you don't say anything. Guys are very simple. When we look at you, we see you as a whole. When you walk into a room, you notice big things like color, furniture, etc. You don't notice the tack holes in the wall. You don't notice the seams in the baseboard. Guys are the same way. We see you as a whole or the parts that make up you. But we don't see the small "blemishes" that you freak out about.
I had a special girl friend that I invited to the movies one night. She made up a bunch of lame excuses why she couldn't go. Now there have been many times where I've gotten lame excuses from girls that didn't want to hang out with me, but I knew this was different because I knew this girl wanted to. After a while of prodding, I found out the real reason she didn't want to go to a movie with me, was because she had a huge zit on her face and didn't want me to see it. I was shocked to see how powerful one little zit could be. A whole evening could have been wasted and ruined because a girl was too embarrassed over it. I gave her a hard time and she finally gave in and went with me, but it made me realize the power that "perceived flaws" have over women. Stop letting these fake flaws dictate how you feel and what you do. I promise you that it's not a big deal and guys don't even notice or care. You spend more energy and time worrying about them, then you do enjoying yourself. Stop covering it with a bunch of makeup, which just makes it worse by making it all greasy and oily which leads to more acne. So stop worrying about that little pimple that only you can see.
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