The more I talk to girls, the more I've learned that girls want a guy who takes charge, has ideas and makes decisions. Now this creates a problem for some people such as myself, who is really laid back, could care less most of the time, and kind of goes with the flow. But when you decide to ask a girl out, have some ideas on what to do, and where to go. When you're first interested in a girl, this is not an acceptable answer, "I don't care what we do, or where we eat. Where do you want to do?" What is also not acceptable is, "I don't have any ideas. Do you?" Part of your process in asking a girl out, or asking a girl to do something is to have a list of ideas. Now I'm not saying that you have to force her to go somewhere that she doesn't want to go. But girls find guys really attractive when they have ideas, guys that have a game plan, that can take charge and make decisions. So next time you ask a girl out, have a list ready, and tell her, "I was thinking of us eating at _______ and then afterwards going _______. Does that sound good?" Now you can ask her some questions like what kind of food she likes, what she enjoys doing and all that stuff beforehand. But after you have an idea of what she does or doesn't like, do some research and find out some places that fit. I can promise you that girls like this a whole lot more than a guy who asks her out, and then says, "well what do you want to do? I don't have any ideas." Don't forget, you're a big boy, you can make big boy decisions.
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